Yes I understand how frustrating it would be not to find a spot for your child when you have to work. I haven't used daycare for getting jobs done around the house (well, once, a few years ago) but I had 5 kids in 10 years, so a lot of projects and things around the house have been difficult to get done. I'm not complaining, (it was my choice to have the children!), but sometimes I really yearn to just get stuck into something without someone asking me something or asking for something, if anyone can understand what I mean? I think I am also just needing time when noone is needing me for anything. Just to be alone and do what I want to do (which might just be something like clean out my bedroom wardrobe without little hands dragging everything through the house).