Hi, I recently found out I am pregnant with my second baby. this was unplanned and has come as quite a shock to my partner and I. I initially was scared, angry, upset and Depressed about being in
This position but after knowing for
A week I am coming to terms with it and falling in love with my baby already. I do however keep changing my mind - I am only 19, a full time student and finding it tough raising a very head strong two year old boy going through his terrible twos! I am wondering how I would cope and keep feeling an array of negative emotions. My partner is supportive if I keep the baby, although he feels like it is a bad time for us and is thinking he wants me to abort the baby and wait a few years until we are further in life. He has a good job and is great to my son and I already, but I am feeling like I don't want to put pressure on him by keeping the baby if he isn't
Fully ready. But I don't think I could live happily knowing I got rid of it. Although I am scared I know I am excited deep down.
Please no judgement. I am lookin for words of encouragement about handling a toddler in his terrible two stage, with a new baby and completing my studies. Have any of you been In this situation, how did you cope, did your partner warm up to the idea of an unplanned pregnancy, and is it possible to create a good career whilst being a mother to two? Did your second child make kt harder, or easier? I somehow think after the first year and a bit, it would be easier as my son would have someone to play with.
Thanks in advance