DD goes to sleep fine by herself but wakes up once or twice a night crying. I cannot and will not leave her alone to cry. Last night I spent nearly 1.5 hours sitting/ standing beside her cot and laying her down and telling her till go to sleep while she cried continuously. Eventually, she gave in and went to sleep.
She will not bedshare. I have tried. She will not let me pat her to sleep, she pushes my hand away. When I try and shush her, she screams louder. Music does not work.
My suggestions that does not involve letting her cry it out alone?