Pfff I would never let a guy even if it was my husband go through my phone or my email. I keep people's confidences and speak to many people about private issues.
If a man can't respect that then he isn't for me.
I don't want to go through his things either. What's the point of having a partner if you treat them like a child.
If you have no trust then you have nothing.
Going through his phone isnt going to stop him from cheating anyway so it's pointless at best.
He sounds like a winner...and rather manipulative and deceitful.
DH's phone is locked, and I don't know his passwords to things...I respect that his privacy and trust that he is loyal...if I asked to borrow his phone and he declined, I would probably be a bit suspicious then, but I do think people deserve privacy within their marriage/relationship. I think demanding phones unlocked and passwords, etc, is quite controlling.
I agree - a single woman in the vicinity app? Why on earth would he need that?
Dh has a lock on his phone as it's for work and is a special type of phone and he doesn't want the kids near it. I don't blink an eyelid. We also know each others pws to FB etc. I've never checked up on him, I think I accessed it once for a non-secretive reason.
But the Op isn't talking about a straight up decent guy that has a lock on his phone to keep the kids out and some crazy untrusting wife. He is surfing p*rn and hiding it from her as she doesn't like it and has an app to hook up and talk to single women and admits he locks it too keep his fiance in the dark.
There's a whole big space in between the two scenarios...
No I wouldn't but then again I wouldn't marry anyone anyway
Does he actually use the app though? I mean, I've got apps on my phone that I haven't used in years.
sounds like trust issues to me. For this reason i wouldnt marry him just yet.
If i were his wife to be, i wouldnt care that he has his phone locked, alot of people do incase it gets stolen. I put a lock and password on mine if i go out to a function or whatever.
I also wouldnt be nieve enough to have not gone thru his phone already lol
In saying that, i dont actually go thru DH's phone because i couldnt care less.
Last edited by Hunkamunka; 20-09-2012 at 13:32.
I think some people really dont take marriage seriously
DH and I both have passcodes on our phones but it is the same passcode and we share all our passwords. I think your only secretive if you have something to hide.
The assumptions in this thread about married couples having passwords have something to hide is ridiculous.I'm glad I am secure enouh in my relationship to not need to know every single detail of my DH's life to be able to trust him.
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