The judgement in the op was that women who didn't shave were manly and unfeminine. Further judgement was implied that it was unhygienic to not shave. Ergo judgment was passed on unshaven women.
My post was that I find their opinion offensive - I am 'judging' their opinion not their way of being, shaven or not.
Yes, we all judge, but there is a difference debating opinions as versus actions or way of being.
I don't care if women shave, I do care why they shave but don't pass an opinion on their shaving IYKWIM. I also care when a judgment is passed, especially with negative connotations and labels. I will debate an opinion especially if I find the opinion offensive.
I also don't believe debating opinions oppressive, debating and discussing thought processes, the conclusion and the premise upon which they are formed is how we further expand our own thoughts - its part of the education process.