BUT... part of the way I see the world is I can't control others. Just as I choose to run a million miles from a low brow place like that, it's others choice to go there. I may disagree with that choice and the effect it has on society, but without choice what kind of life is it? Where is the line drawn? If we remove choice on everything we no longer live in a democracy but a dictatorship. Furthermore how do we define when people can't choose? Should a mother not be able to choose formula? should a man be not allowed to choose to stay at home? It's a slippery slope
To the owner of the take away I would ask him how s/he would feel if it were his/her daughters, sisters, mothers who were the topless waitresses with the tits out for the blokes. I would question how this marketing strategy fits with his/her moral compass. I would ask how s/he arrived at topless waitresses as a marketing strategy.
To the women that are being employed as topless waitresses, I'm not sure what I would ask to be honest.
To the blokes that wish to patronage the establishment, I would ask them how do they feel that someone has assumed they are all neanderthal half-wits? I would then ask how they would feel if it were there daughter, sister, mother, girlfriend, wife working there and remind them that each of those woman are someone's daughter. I would ask them how then feel about supporting the objectification of women and the polarizing of women's roles* because that's what they are doing (the waitresses may well be thrilled by the idea of earning extra money and have no qualms about being topless but they too are still contributing to the objectification of women's bodies). There's probably a few other choice words I'd say but that would be a start...
*women are either virtuous or whores, ye olde double standard.
Sexualing breasts starts in the bedroom.
To every person that is saying that we shouldn't be sexualising breasts, do you let your dp/df/dh touch your breasts when you're having sex? I'll be utterly shocked if anyone can genuinely answer no!
Why can't breasts be sexual as well as for feeding? Is it really that much of an issue that these adults are CHOOSING to show their breasts? Is it really that much of an issue that these adult customers are CHOOSING to be served by topless waitresses?
Are YOU being forced to witness this? I highly doubt it!
But I guess my stance on this is the same as the sex industry. People choose to consume it and however sad it is to me, it's their choice to make.
So I can see both sides of the argument....
Meh Its her body she can do what she wants with it, and there his eyes he can look at what he wants with them as long as the person he islooking at it consenting and over the age of 18 then i have no issue with it at all.
A women ( or man for that matter) should be free to choose what she wants to do with her body as it is just that her body, i dont by into the thing of it disrespects other women because I dont see how that should make another women choose what another does. I have never heard a stripper tell another women they must take there kit of for money if theydid it would be wrong, but i hear all the time women who dont telling strippers they shouldnt or saying to others strippers shouldnt, there body there choice.
No. I can't stand it. Not that I'm laying in bed thinking "don't objectify me with your hands" it's more ick and bat his and or elbow him or roll away. Can't stand having my breasts touched in a sexual way.
Though I don't think breasts can't be sexual. And that's all good for whoever else. Not my boobs not my concerned if it's good for someone else!
Still think this idea is incredibly tacky.
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Just got DH opinion. He said it was a good business idea, every guy he knows be it tradie or businessman would drive 20 mins just to get lunch from a topless lunch bar (didn't say if he would or wouldn't but hey he's a guy hello how many out there wouldn't?? I would prob look myself, I'm fascinated by boobs - not in the sexual way of course but I like looking at them??)
Each to their own, if a woman choses to do things like this do be it. If DH happens to see a topless chick (bucks party ect), also fine, as long as there is no touching or no cracking on to from either person.
I don't mind ogling topless men, heck bring on a topless dr Patrick Reid (offspring) any day. *drool*
What does get to me a little are the chicks that do fruit and veg shows or lesbian shows at bucks party. That shizzle goes way to far than a normal stripper or dancer for my liking!! Eiw.
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