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    Quote Originally Posted by Tainted View Post
    I agree, Becster.. but then I feel guilty about my child missing out on having a 'family' etc. I think sometimes everything gets so overwhelming it is really hard to make decisions that should be easy.
    I am sorry, but what you have is not a family. It sounds as if you would be MUCH better off without him. What your child is missing out on is a house FREE of anger, aggression and sadness. I think you should break ties with your ex. It is confusing for your child too, if he is only with you sometimes...?

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    Default Re: Whinge

    I was in your situation with an emotionally abusive partner. We would fight constantly, he threatened to kill himself, wrecked our stuff, threatened to harm pets etc.

    My advice is to LEAVE !!!! What you have isn't a family, it's not healthy for ANY of you, it won't get better.

    Sure when my xdh and I separated my ds was very upset and kept asking for his dad but he's much happier now that there is no fighting and tension at home.

    Best of luck, it's not an easy decision to make but trust me, you'll be soooooooo much happier when you do.

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    Default Re: Whinge

    Hi tainted if you need to vent again feel free to message me.
    Hope you've had a better day today

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