I'll happily tell any kid who's being rough to quit it. I'll usually say something like 'hey! Let's stop fighting and start sharing, shall we?' Or if i think they're really doing it deliberately, I will sternly tell them 'gentle, thanks' and give them as big a greasy as I can muster LOL. There's a mum at my playgroup whose DD is a bully and DS is afraid of her, so i make sure she knows I know I'm watching. Her mum does try to pull her up on stuff, but she's not always watching as she has a baby as well.
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