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    My bbf and I have fallen out over out children. I think I'm right she thinks she is...
    This will never change.
    She was apart from this the best person you could have in your life. Always there to help
    She was going to be both my kids godmother last Sunday but she was never going to come after our fall out.
    I am lost sad cant stop crying and feel absolutely crap. I know we are never going to be friends again and it kills me.
    How do you move on from this. Sorry this is short but I'm so cut up to write anymore.

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    Is it that bad that you can't sort it and work on it again? What happened?

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    Hugs... You are both hurting and both you and her need some time... Time is a great healer and you are grieving for what you've lost!!

    Hopefully over time, you can be friends again and as close as ever, but if this is not an option allow yourself time to grieve and eventually let yourself be at peace.
    Last edited by babylove81; 10-09-2012 at 16:19.

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    Nope it can't be fixed
    Her son was being rotten to mine at school for about a month ( they were best friends) I tried to talk to her about it but she just didn't want to hear it. She said she asked her son and the kids teacher and and he said no it was not happening. Sorry kids don't always tell the truth and teachers don't always watch or know what is happening on the playground. Anyway my son was coming home really cut up most days than not. He was really angry at my bbf for not believing us. I never said anything again.... Until her boys punched mine and 3 others set on him at school. I knew there was no point telling her she would not hear of it.
    I went to school to speak to the principle about the fight the next day.. Her son lied about even being involved. He was not given anything my son retaliated and got detention the other boys that also fought with my son got detention and 1 a suspension. I was so cross and took my son in to tell him again who threw the first punch. My bbf son was pulled in again found to be lying got a blue card and detention and never told him mum.
    So our boys hated each other can't be at the same place so no more play over with the kids or helping each other out in babysitting or school runs. Everything changed without me bringing it up again.
    My ds12 nor the same son was getting baptized yesterday and he choose her for a sponsor. So we were our for coffee on the Monday to go look at gifts and I said maybe we should get the boys together for a casual playdate to help them mend things.
    She said no her son was too angry at mine for lying about him bullying. I replied well he was being horrible to him also punched him at school and got himself in trouble. Her response no he has not. I said he did anyway things went in like this. She thinks my son is a liar as well as me. Her husband told her son to keep well away from mine,and apparently he is the better for it.
    I was dumbfounded this was not how I thought asking the boys to catch up would turn out. They were bf for 4 years since pre primary. I thought it was worth a try. After all that we went off looking at gifts for the kids baptism not another word said about it... Until I get home and receive a SMS saying if I thought her sin was such a little s*it why would I want them to be friends again.
    I never called him that or any name.
    I wrote back saying I thought they derserved a second chance and hiw hard it made our friendship then hating each other. My ds didn't even want to cine to his siblings baptism because he was there and his mum thought he was lying. Sorry there is so much else but can't get it all down but this is the beginning if the end.

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    I hope that you can move forward with or without your friend. It's hard when children don't tell the truth and of course as a parent you'd want to believe your child. Good Luck x

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