I hear ya!
I had gut feeling we were going to have issues after just 3 or 4 months of trying. All I heard was 'that's normal' and 'your still so young anyway'. At 9 months we saw the Dr. At 12 months or so we saw the gyno. And finaly at 15months we are going to see a f/s tomorow!
Even after being diagnosed with PCOS and my DH results not coming back super great, people still say 'your still young' and to add they say 'some people don't fall for years' like that's going to make us feel better?
Also, in regards to your earlier post, my DH assures me he desperately wants a baby as much as I do, but I often still feel alone in the journey also. I ask him, why do I do all the research and book all the appointments if you want it so much too??? And then he feels a guilt which is not want I intended. I guess your right, it's just a male thing. Their not as good as us girls in showing our emotions.
Best wishes to you.