Thanks KandP, I can't PM yet as I am only new but I have just googled Kirsty. Her website looks great. I might give her a call now
I hope the bedrest isn't driving you crazy. It will be most definitely be worth it!
Loveabug - good luck for epu. Fingers crossed for excellent quality eggs and a fresh transfer for you.
Shelby - I highly recommend Jenny from east west fertility and her team. They are all fantastic. They are located at Ashgrove so only about 10mins from the city.
Thanks Bronwyn! I was just looking at your signature and your history looks so similar to mine. A big congratulations on your BFP, I know how hard the road can be!!
Hi ladies. Thanks for all the kind messages, I really do appreciate it.
As you know I went away for a long weekend and got back today. Woke up this morning spotting brown but was still optimistic. Was thinking maybe it was the blood we saw outside the sac. This afternoon started cramping and lost red blood. I made an appt with wazza but decided to cancel. I feel tired and sore. I know it's over anyway so what is the point going back for a scan. After all he did say last wed he was 100% sure. Hubby has bought me lots of chocolate so I will curl up in bed tonight and hope its all over soon.
We stupidly told dd about the baby when we found out a few weeks ago, we were just hoping she would be a bit more gentle towards me and stop asking to be picked up so often. Well of course that backfired on us and we have learnt out lesson if there ever is a next time. But I felt like I needed to tell her why I am sore and a bit sad so I said the baby decided to go to heaven and there wont be a baby. And she just looked at me and said "another one?". So sweet and innocent. I wish I knew the answer to give her. If only I had a crystal ball
Nicole - thinking of you though this difficult period :-(
Shelby - sounds like you have got lots of good recommendations. I use Maria Berry on Racecourse Rd, Ascot. Like the others she specializes in fertility and she is a lovely lady :-)
Nicole. - I am so so sorry. Huge hugs, I wish there was something I could do.
AFM- started to bleed bright red blood, just waiting to see Wazza now and hoping like crazy it is nothing to worry about and bubble is okay and snuggled in tight.
Oh nicole I'm sending you the hugest hugs i can muster virtually...
My next appointment with Wazza is on Thursday, where we find out if bub is still alive and if so, hopefully the heartbeat has picked up. On the upside, my bleeding has slowed significantly, and there has been no red blood since stopping the clexane. I'm also hardly cramping now. TMI - i just feel like i'm emptying old blood now. I'm not religious, but i'm praying we see little backhoe in there in a couple of days.
KandP. Keeping everything crossed for good news at your scan.
Update: Managed to get squeezed in to see Wazza and the good news is that bubs had a lovely strong heartbeat and was very active which is apparently a good thing. Fs has put me on drugs to help stop the bleeding and Valium to relax the uterus, along with a whole host of other things to support the pregnancy. And am now on two weeks of complete bed rest. **** timing for lots of things at the moment, but will do anything if it means bubs is okay. I guess one of the positives of dh having lost his job last month is he is at least home to look after me.
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