If your DH lied to your face about smoking pot?
My DH told me he had given up but last night I asked him straight out if he had been smoking because I suspected he'd just had a bong. He said no. I went out to his shed and found his hidden stash, came back in and asked him to look me in the eye and tell me if he'd been smoking. Again he said no.
I'm so hurt and upset about the lying, not the smoking. I believe he hasn't been smoking much but he lied about it. What else has he been lying about?
I haven't yelled at him or anything. I've just said I'm really upset and I've been crying. He told me he doesn't see the big deal, that I'm just being a drama queen and trying to rule his life. I've asked him to move out for a few days - we've had ongoing problems for a long time. He said he's fine with that.
I'm so, so upset I can't stop crying. I really don't want my marriage to break down but it's all so one-sided, we can't fix things if he won't realise how his actions are wrong and upset me.
So, my question is, am I overreacting? Am I being a "drama queen"? I stress again I haven't yelled or said anything other than I'm really upset he would lie to me. And I've been crying most of the day.
What would you do?