I'm 9wks pregnant with our 3rd bub. I've had 3 m/c and have always had a private OB who was very obliging with checking my bub on a weekly basis till I got to 12wks (more for my benefit). We have since moved and I've changed OB and he won't see me till after 12 wks. I'm paranoid all the time and trying so hard to keep positive. How do you keep calm and in a positive mind set?