I don't mind a little mess laying around but I absolutely can't STAND filth. I have to vacuum and clean the bathrooms and do the dishes and all that stuff but if there's a pile of clothes in a corner (or on the lounge) it doesn't bother me - ill clean it up in due time, always before I have someone over and stuff. Messy houses aren't always happy but sometimes you can't do everything lol. I can't stand going to my friends house, she always says 'sorry about the mess' doesn't clean it ever and the place is filthy. I know she has two kids but she and her df just sit on the couch on fb complaining that their house is grot... That's not cool, like I wouldn't think anything if they made an effort and then the kids undo it but to be lazy and complain then tell me that my place is so 'fancy' and then get jealous? No..