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    Quote Originally Posted by NAT256 View Post
    I'll preface this by saying, I haven't been through what most of you have so please take this with a grain of salt and I'll shudduppa my face if it's not worth reading..... but......for anyone in the beginnings of their pregnancy.....

    Try your best to enjoy the pregnancy. This may be your 'one', so being positive and happy about every step is important too. When I was going through the fearful early times I tried my best to do this (not always successfully!)

    Let's be honest, it isn't going to hurt any less if the worst happens and you haven't let yourself get excited. We kid ourselves that we are protecting ourselves by 'not getting our hopes up' but of course we ARE getting our hopes up anyhow.

    One day it WILL be 'the one' so make sure you have enjoyed each special moment. Let yourself get your hopes up, don't be afraid to love your tiny bean from the very start.

    Okay.....lecture over. I hope you get where I'm coming from


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    Hey Nat, you know I remember you saying this when you were very newly pregnant with your two and I was so very admiring of the sentiment and I thought I want to be like this too, when it is my time.

    I think I did a pretty good job on it last pregnancy. But since that failed I'm finding it extra hard. I really want to do it this time too...I promise! But I am finding the fear of failure so debilitating. I am so scared to get attached and have it taken away.

    For you other ladies who are pregnant after a loss...how are you coping? Is it just me?

    Anyway, maybe I'll be able to relax a bit tomorrow. It's my ultrasound day. Freaking out.

    RoRo, good luck for this month. Fingers crossed for you.

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    Hmmm, may have spoken too soon about trying to be positive. Bleeding tonight :-(

    Why does this have to be so damn hard?

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    Oh noooo! Thinking of you mrserinr. Hoping against hope that it's ok. xo

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    Quote Originally Posted by MrsErinR View Post
    Hey Nat, you know I remember you saying this when you were very newly pregnant with your two and I was so very admiring of the sentiment and I thought I want to be like this too, when it is my time.

    I think I did a pretty good job on it last pregnancy. But since that failed I'm finding it extra hard. I really want to do it this time too...I promise! But I am finding the fear of failure so debilitating. I am so scared to get attached and have it taken away.

    For you other ladies who are pregnant after a loss...how are you coping? Is it just me?

    Anyway, maybe I'll be able to relax a bit tomorrow. It's my ultrasound day. Freaking out.

    RoRo, good luck for this month. Fingers crossed for you.
    I'm starting to relax after last scan - I'll feel even better after nt scan is done and we have low risk - fx.

    As for your bleeding MrsE, it could be nothing.......try not to worry (although I know it's impossible not to....). We'll be thinking of you tomorrow - let us know how you go xx

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    Hi all

    Sadly, I don't also have happy news to share after my scan today. I am 7w1d and our bub was only measuring 5w4d and was too small to even look for a heartbeat. I know that this is bad, especially combined with the bleed I had last night. I expected it to measure a bit behind, but not that much.

    They want me to come back in a week for another scan. I'm worried I'll miscarry at home before then. Need to chat to my FS about what to do.

    I'll keep you all posted, but I suspect this is the end for me and this pregnancy. Two angel babies in one year. It's exhausting.

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    I am so sorry. Thinking of you and praying for a miracle. Let us know what your FS says. Noone should have to endure this mrserinr. Look after you. xo

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    Quote Originally Posted by NAT256 View Post
    I am so sorry. Thinking of you and praying for a miracle. Let us know what your FS says. Noone should have to endure this mrserinr. Look after you. xo

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    ^this.
    xxxx

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    Oh MrsErinR, I am so sorry this is happening to you. Two losses in a year would be very hard.

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    MrsErinR I'm so very sorry. I hope a miracle happens but we are all here for you if it does not. I will be holding you in my heart today.

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    Saw our FS today and he is pessimistic about our chances after the scan results. I was totally expecting that and I feel ok. I wish it could be different, but it just isn't, so I'm being realistic I guess. We will have another scan in a week from today (so 10 days from last scan). If there is no heartbeat then I'll be going in for a D&C the following Saturday. If there is a heartbeat then I guess we keep waiting to see what happens.

    I'm surprised by how well I'm coping. Maybe it will hit me later. In a strange way, I've been so worried about this pregnancy from the start that it's almost a relief to know what's happening with it.

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