I've been thinking of you RoRo and hope you are okay after the D&C....well, as okay as it's possible to be . I hope you find some answers and I don't think your feelings are heartless at all, perfectly understandable. The genetic testing sounds like a positive step you can take. Even if you find nothing, it is another thing off the list and might reassure you that a successful pregnancy is definitely possible. Please keep us updated. EmmaJane - no sorry I didn't have any stabbing pains, but then I had basically no symptoms at all throughout, so I may not be a good indicator of pregnancy symptoms. I hope it means good news for you!