Thanks Debstar, I agree that the expectations seem unrealistic. I would definitely go to the second interviews and like you say, keep your options open. Would you be able to go to the interviews after or before work, or do you need to take time out of your job? Because if you are doing late nights and Saturday, I would hope that your employer would give you time out for a few hours. Definitely put yourself and your family first.
AFM, I had a small bit of brown spotting yesterday and cramps at 8dpo. Nothing today though. Could be my body still recovering from the op. Still not testing. Holding out!