I was sexually abused as a child, last night I put cream on my 5 year old sons bum hole because he said it was itchy*. Is that sexual abuse? I've also parted my daughters labia to remove poo from them. Is that abuse? I've also gently retracted my other sons foreskin to see if there was and damage after he shut it in the toilet the other week and complained that it was sore. Is that abuse? I've also blown raspberries on all their bums as babies
*I've treated him and his brother for worms orally jic btw.