I dunno, I think I may have done it to DD on occasion after using a wipe during a nappy change, and putting on some nappy rash cream for nappy rash. It kind of needs to dry between, but a wriggly baby/toddler is not really going to lay around happily while it air dries, especially after learning to roll. So a quick blow to remove the dampness so the cream would actually apply... and that's it.
It was never sexual and nothing I ever considered could be mistaken for sexual. It was just something I did absent-mindedly... like it just seemed natural to do if I wanted to get that result (dryness to apply cream) quickly while she wriggled and such.
I'm sorry I didnt think this post was going to create such hostility. I am 31 and the mother is 19. i thought the orginal post was enough and people would only tell me if I should give her more education or leave it be, I honestly didnt think people were going to say it was ok, because I actually thought it wasnt ok. To me it was sexual assault but because the mother maybe didnt realise what she was doing it wasnt really assault. I sort of felt you shoudnt touch a childs genitals in any other way than to clean them, and I dont really consider a bottom genitals, I too blow rasberries on my baby's bum. So when people questioned my actions and wanted me to explain why I had such a strong reaction I did explain why, I never changed my story I just gave more information cause I was asked. I tried searching on the internet but all I got was information on adults it didnt say anything about babies. I only joined today because I was concerned and wanted advice, its not very well something I would go and post on facebook where people would be able to pick up on who I was talking about. I dont know what a trigger warning is, but if you tell me what it is I will add it.
Wow... I don't really see anything wrong with the original post however have become increasingly confused by all the updates that have followed...
Hmmmm ok. It's possible she didn't realise it was an odd thing to do as it was the norm for her. I think maybe it was right to say something but I don't think she should have been berated per se. Maybe have a calm chat with her about it? Out of interest, why did you berate her for it and post here about it being inappropriate etc when it sounds like you did anything when it was happening to the mother herself?
ive done it to my nephew, it sometimes would make him wee before i put a clean nappy on so i didnt get a suprise fountain in my face.
distance wise its while he was lying on carpet and me sitting up not a straight jet of air onto his bits more just a cool breeze. Not sure if i ever did it do dd. probably just to see the suprise look on her face at feeling a new feeling like a rasberry, on her body not just directed at her fanny though. Its weird to kind of 'take aim' at clitoris as op said.
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I'm very sorry if I offend you op, but after reading a thread on here from a first time poster asking for photos of babies belly buttons I am very suspicious about your intents.
In any case, no I don't think it's sexual
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