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    Quote Originally Posted by Alexander Beetle View Post
    You left out some very important information. How old was the child? A baby, nah no big deal.You're reaction is more concerning actually.
    Good point. Interesting first post too.

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    Default Re: Is this sexual abuse?

    Bit weird but not sexual abuse. I have blown raspberrirs on to the kids butt, cause it makes them laugh.

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    My reaction was because of the way she did it, put her face in close and blue directly on her clitoris and because she said 'she likes it'. She didnt say it was because she was drying her vagina until afterwards. The baby is 6 weeks old, and there are a lot of other things going on in the family too which I think has me more on my guard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deni05 View Post
    My reaction was because of the way she did it, put her face in close and blue directly on her clitoris and because she said 'she likes it'. She didnt say it was because she was drying her vagina until afterwards. The baby is 6 weeks old, and there are a lot of other things going on in the family too which I think has me more on my guard.
    Yeah ok that is weird

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    ok..so you added lots to the story now..

    what other things?

    Her clitoris? really... she blew on the babies clitoris??? or..

    she blew and you automatically went..

    CLITORIS BLOWING....AGGGHHHHH

    because I dont think many people would jump to that assumption...

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    I blow raspberries on my 3 year olds but, even her waist above her vagina. DD laughs hysterically. There is NOTHING sexual about it!!!!!

    If someone accused me of sexual abuse I would completely flip!

    I think it was a complete over reaction.

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    Default Is this sexual abuse?

    Sorry but if you truly spoke to your friend like that and were seriously concerned why are you talking about it on a parenting forum instead of reporting it?

    IMO if she was abusing her child she certainly wouldn't do it so openly in front of you.
    Whilst I don't think it's really appropriate I wouldn't class that as abuse and I do think you owe your friend an apology, you could have handled it a lot more tactfully.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ishtyban View Post
    ok..so you added lots to the story now..

    what other things?

    Her clitoris? really... she blew on the babies clitoris??? or..

    she blew and you automatically went..

    CLITORIS BLOWING....AGGGHHHHH

    because I dont think many people would jump to that assumption...
    I know for my girls of have to separate the labia to be able to do something like that (and that's just something I'd never do).

    I think it's a pretty big assumption to make, OP.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deni05 View Post
    My reaction was because of the way she did it, put her face in close and blue directly on her clitoris and because she said 'she likes it'. She didnt say it was because she was drying her vagina until afterwards. The baby is 6 weeks old, and there are a lot of other things going on in the family too which I think has me more on my guard.
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    Kids do love being blown on. The poor woman probably said drying her vagina because you went nuts at her. Why didn;t you mention the 'other things' first post?

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    No she put her face in close and blew directly onto the area between her labia. She did it so innocently so no I dont think she even realised what she was doing, but I have seen it done before, infact I have seen it done on the mother and the person who did it to her did a lot of other things I thought were really inappopriate. I'm just hoping she is not going to repeat these behaviours...


 

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