So I'm pregnant. We're meant to be getting married next year, but we're not sure if we're going to go ahead with it and instead have a family only wedding later this year that will be incredibly small.
Anyway, my Mum just called me and asked what we're doing on Friday and I asked her what did she mean? She said are we going to go look for an outfit for Nan (as my bro is getting married next month) and I said, sure, let me know what time and where etc. She then proceeded to tell me, that if we couldn't find anything for Nan we'll look at wedding dresses for me. I said I don't think there's any reason to as we don't know what we're doing with the wedding yet. She then said "No, it will be a good incentive for you to lose weight, no one likes a fat bride"
Sorry Mum, I didn't realise that I still have to go and starve myself and lose all this weight whilst being pregnant just so I look good for a wedding day that may not happen. My main priority is to be healthy for this pregnancy, yes, but to say it so crass. B*tch.
Just needed to get it off my chest. Why say it if it's not nice to say.
And FYI, I'm already watching what I eat and exercising, even before I found out i was pg.