I'm not really pushing. I mentioned out early on that if he calls her mum it's fine by me. For his second birthday I invited his father, step mum, and step mums son. They all declined the invite and I've been told to only speak with ex on mattersthat directly relate to Ds's immediate needs or health.
So I know that there must be some sort of angst, anger, distrust out something from that end. I guess I'm hoping that it's only that, and not some lack of connection with ds that I'm seeing
Forgive any weird substitutions... Silly phone, but I still love it