+ Reply to Thread
Results 1 to 4 of 4
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Jan 2011

    Red face Just got Aspergers diagnoses, no idea where to start and overwhelmed?!


    I know this is a small issue compared to what others on here face but I have no idea where to start of what to do. My son is nearly 5 and his behaviour has worried me for a couple of years and have just been given (more like dumped with) a formal diagnoses of Aspergers. Just after info on what other parents first did when they got the same diagnoses, any resources I could use to help my child at home (at school next year) and anything you've implemented or used at home to help ease meltdowns (having around 7 a day here). Just super confused with the whole thing at the moment and the internet search just overwhelmed me!

    Many thanks,


  2. #2
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 postsAmber Star - 2,000 postsAmethyst Star - 5,000 posts
    I've just joined a Facebook site I searched autism Australia and it came up, heaps of great advice/tips.

    We got digonosed at 3-4 and did early intervention, speech therapy and OT.
    Visuals help explain things better, talking in 3-4 word sentencises, say exactly what you mean as they can't read between the lines, umm can think of much at the moment as its late but feel free to pm me.

  3. #3
    bgbgbb's Avatar
    bgbgbb is offline To think, I was only going to have 1 child!
    Join Date
    Jan 2008
    In a house too small for 8 people!
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    My daughter was diagnosed with Aspergers earlier this year (she's 8).

    My advise is as follows:

    1. School: try and organise funding for an aide (if it's not too late). He will benefit from their assistance in interactive situations like sport and to help him organise his reading and writing, etc. Make sure he sits up the front of the class as this will allow his attention to not wander as much. Be upfront with his teachers as you want them on your side (and make sure he is given a teacher who can best cope with him).

    2. Get to your paediatrician and get a mental health plan sorted so you can get medicare subsidised OT and psychology sessions (you get 10 per year, although 16 just for this year). It is very likely he'll have fine motor issues, as well as poor core stability (ie: tummy muscles), so will need an OT to help him with his pencil grip, etc. Also get a mental health plan from your GP in place. Seeing a psychologist can give you and him coping strategies to transition well into school and make the best of social interaction.

    3. Get him into a physical activity that will allow him to interact, without being invasive. We have started our kids in karate (my eldest has PDD-NOS as well) and they love the karate. It helps with the core stability and co-ordination (which is often not good with Aspie kids), there's not a lot of physical contact, and there's a great outlet to release frustration. I also like how they get regular rewards by grading up in belts, which can give them a sense of accomplishment, something so essential when they often feel overwhelmed by everything else.

    4. Join the local disability group (I'm in Melbourne, so if you are as well I can tell you what's available here). They can give you assistance with activites just for Aspie kids, camps and just general guidance. My kids go to a mainstream catholic school, but they enjoy their Aspie outings as it allows them to relax and just be themselves.

    5. Read up on it as much as you can. Tony Attwood is a world re-knowned expert on aspergers and his books can tell you all you need to know.

    Feel free to PM if you like, and good luck!

  4. #4
    Join Date
    Oct 2012
    Where are you located? I am in Perth, WA so most of the stuff I know I only relevant to other people in WA.



Similar Threads

  1. Asthma diagnoses and school
    By MrsOhara in forum General Chat
    Replies: 11
    Last Post: 13-11-2012, 17:04
  2. Aspergers and ODD
    By YMo7 in forum General Child Health Issues
    Replies: 6
    Last Post: 13-08-2012, 19:40
  3. Moving to Brisbane? No idea where to start...
    By Caviar in forum Brisbane
    Replies: 20
    Last Post: 27-07-2012, 10:19

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
Free weekly newsletters | Sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

learn how you can become a reviewer!


forum - chatting now
sales & new stuffsee all
All For Kids Market
With just a few sleeps til Christmas, the All for Kids Market is a great opportunity to find unique gifts-or hire a stall and sell some of your outgrown items to raise cash for the festive season! Indoors. Plenty of parking! Kids activities
Saturday 12th November 2016
featured supporter
Baby U & The Wiggles - Toilet Training Products
Toilet training can be a testing time but Baby U is there to assist you and your toddler with the daunting task of toilet training. With a range of products that can be used at home, on holidays or out & about.

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!