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    Have you talked to her about it? Maybe ask her if you have upset her by your updates? (I don't think have to apologise btw, well done on your loss). It may have nothing to do with jealousy, it may have.

    All I can say is, someone I have on FB, who is a nice girl might I add, updates sometimes multiple times a day about her pg. We've been ttc for over a year with 2 losses so it kills me to see them. I'm not angry at her, I'm just protecting myself I guess.

    So that's maybe a different perspective...

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    TBH I find your posts very self centred and if you were my friend I probably wouldn't have commented because of that. Seriously who cares if she doesn't comment? If I really didn't care about something I wouldn't be posting it to a million strangers on a forum dwelling about it in such a negative way. I actually find your smugness in these posts thinking you are better than her on some level offensive and not the words of a true "friend"... Maybe she just realises you don't really care about her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trusty Chords View Post
    TBH I find your posts very self centred and if you were my friend I probably wouldn't have commented because of that. Seriously who cares if she doesn't comment? If I really didn't care about something I wouldn't be posting it to a million strangers on a forum dwelling about it in such a negative way. I actually find your smugness in these posts thinking you are better than her on some level offensive and not the words of a true "friend"... Maybe she just realises you don't really care about her.

    This.

    You asked earlier where were you judging your friend? Read back through your posts. Not only do they sound incredibly judgmental, you also show an astounding lack of empathy for someone who, by your own admission, is just like you were. Who are you to judge her?
    If you're so sure you're not the one being hurtful then how about you print this thread and give it to her. Maybe if you finally get her to break down and cry about how *you* think she's failed then you'll feel better.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Trusty Chords View Post
    TBH I find your posts very self centred and if you were my friend I probably wouldn't have commented because of that. Seriously who cares if she doesn't comment? If I really didn't care about something I wouldn't be posting it to a million strangers on a forum dwelling about it in such a negative way. I actually find your smugness in these posts thinking you are better than her on some level offensive and not the words of a true "friend"... Maybe she just realises you don't really care about her.
    I do love people who are out to have a go at someone else via finger tapping . Very helpful

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kelly8329 View Post
    I do love people who are out to have a go at someone else via finger tapping . Very helpful
    Oh the irony.

    Come off it. This is exactly what you are doing. The only difference is that your friend doesn't have a chance to defend herself because you're doing it behind her back.

    At the very least, if you feel strongly enough to start a 4 page post, you could confront your friend and give her a chance to explain

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    Quote Originally Posted by WineTime View Post
    Oh the irony.

    Come off it. This is exactly what you are doing. The only difference is that your friend doesn't have a chance to defend herself because you're doing it behind her back.

    At the very least, if you feel strongly enough to start a 4 page post, you could confront your friend and give her a chance to explain
    Why would I want to confront her on something like this???? If it is an issue she has with herself why on earth would I want to put her I the awkward situation of me saying hey do you have a problem with my weightloss Journey?
    All I wanted to know was A. Have I done something wrong that I wasn't aware of and I see that it's possible that all though I think differently and don't make someone else's joy my sorrow I see now that others do but there is nothing I can do about it.
    I don't feel my Facebook paged rubbed anything in I actually started feeling bad and had a look back through and over the past 3 months there was just the one photo and one update. I never spoke about it out and about and I do mean never!
    Or f it was B. Just a jealousy thing which I'm a beginning to think it is and to me that's nature and if she is jealous there is really not much I can do about that is there. I myself am a jealous kind of person and only I can fix my issues, I'm not about to confront her on it and make her feel awkward. That's just plain rude

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    And the only way you're going to know if its A or B, Kelly, is by asking your friend.

    Alternatively you can just let your friendship deteriorate until you both dislike each other but neither of you knowing quite why.

    Seems a silly reason to end a friendship.
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    OK, since it's getting very unfriendly CLOSE time

    Although, I wanted to say, Molars are horrible. And the blood tests... eeeewwwww. I did the same thing. Focused on healthy eating/lifestyle cause I felt so cheated by my own body. That I couldn't rely on it at all. BUT weight and lifestyle (within reason) are not contributing factors in PM.


 
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