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    I have a cousin who hung himself after months of being bullied at work. He spoke up at work and got bullied worse. He is dead, his kids have no father.

    I never knew til now there was a right and wrong way to be bullied or commit suicide - Thankyou for your wonderful information. I must remember to tell his kids he did it the wrong way, I'm sure that will make it allll better. I might even see them at the cemetery tomorrow seeing its Fathers day.

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    I really want to ask about "attention seeking"

    We do all know that attention is a basic human want.
    We all want attention. watch your children, they crave it.

    Its pretty normal..
    Some of us are lucky enough to get attention and be be validated. Some of us get it all through childhood and gain the skills to not go out and seek it.

    Some of do not. Some people never get enough and they crave it. Its not something they can actually control too much.

    Some children that are placed in modelling, tv and pageants, learn that they require a lot of attention, to feel validated and important.

    This is all pretty basic.. This attention seeking behaviour is usually based in so much of a persons history and also their own personality traits.
    Sadly a lot of people that seek attention, also can be the kind of people who suffer from depression when they feel they get no attention.

    Its a luxury to be stable and able to cope with life.
    Some people really do not have that luxury.

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    Default Re: **warning distressing** Charlotte Dawson in hospital after twitter attack.

    Charlotte Dawson has plenty of help at her disposale if she needs it. Why post it on twitter where the majority of people are the ones who were telling her to do those things?? shes just gonna get an even more negative reaction. Thats what i dont get.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PuppyGuts View Post
    Charlotte Dawson has plenty of help at her disposale if she needs it. Why post it on twitter where the majority of people are the ones who were telling her to do those things?? shes just gonna get an even more negative reaction. Thats what i dont get.

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    How do you know that?

    My Gran is pretty famous with old people ..lol.
    At one time, she was hosting the most watched show on aussie tv.. won a gold logie and was flying all over the world.. front page of mags... etc

    She told me it was the most lonely time in her entire life.
    Her friendships were mostly superficial and based on her fame.. she didnt have anyone ..real to talk too and she was massively depressed.

    We have no idea what Charlotte has or doesnt have.

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    Default Re: **warning distressing** Charlotte Dawson in hospital after twitter attack.

    Quote Originally Posted by PuppyGuts View Post
    no, going on twitter holding pills and being all 'days of our lives' was.big attention moment. I hate it its so friggin highschool i have dealt closely with suicide and its quite often not something you see coming or warn others you are going to do unless you want a major sympathy vote.

    That and the fact shes a fame who.re anyway. sorry might be harsh but i see it so much but im real desensitised to it now. If your gonna tell me your gonna kill yourself in some dramatic fashion or because of a break up. I dont believe you.
    did you mean "desensitised" or "insensitive"?

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    I get the whole 'bullying is bad and 2 wrongs dont make a right thing'. However, if you are a bully yourself, expect that one day, someone might just bully you back.

    But there is a level of irony that a woman that has worked on 2 reality shows that have traded on and almost advocated bullying should cry foul when, herself, is on the receiving end.

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    Default Re: **warning distressing** Charlotte Dawson in hospital after twitter attack.

    Telling someone to kill themselves, hang themselves, go and die is far beyond bullying. I don't think anyome deserves that.

    To the PP who said she is attention seeking, have you not heard of a cry for help?

    Some posts in this thread are disgusting!


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    Default **warning distressing** Charlotte Dawson in hospital after twitter attack.

    Quote Originally Posted by Solarberry View Post
    I get the whole 'bullying is bad and 2 wrongs dont make a right thing'. However, if you are a bully yourself, expect that one day, someone might just bully you back.

    But there is a level of irony that a woman that has worked on 2 reality shows that have traded on and almost advocated bullying should cry foul when, herself, is on the receiving end.
    Because of course tv producers never, ever edit to create drama and make one person seem like the "bad guy" just for ratings.

    Because reality shows like top model are always, 110% real and no one is ever ever encouraged to say something edgy for ratings........

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    Default Re: **warning distressing** Charlotte Dawson in hospital after twitter attack.

    Quote Originally Posted by MrsTiggyWinkle View Post
    did you mean "desensitised" or "insensitive"?

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    No i know exactly what i meant actually.

    I witnessed my big bro get mangled by a train and his half sister o'd on xmas night last yr ok so i do actually have some experience with suicide and i dont see how i cnt have an opinion without you making fun of me?

    I held a woman while she cried for her children who couldve reached out for help and who wished she couldve given them support and from what I have experienced in MY life. I find people that post about it on fb and have 'goodbye cruel world' type statuses are full of **** and attention seeking. Im sick of feeling guily trynig to help people who are you learn in the end had other agendas. Dont try and tell me how i can and cant feel about something by making fun of me.





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    Yes im finding the assumption that just because we think this is a publicity stunt we most know nothing about suicide very strange. Also, Charlotte Dawson bullied, attacked and criticised countless girls on Top MOdel, so she's hardly an angel. I dont agreen with bullying, but I dont believe her 'suicide attempt' is true. The timing is what puts me off believing.


 

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