Ok in that case, I would document as much as you can remember about all the contact he's had with the kids and with you.
I highly doubt that he could get a recovery order if he was aware of where you were this whole time and hasn't filed yet.
How far away does he live?
How much contact did he have before you moved?
In all honesty it looks bad in court if you outright refuse to let him see the kids BUT if he asks I'd respond along the lines of 'sure you get yourself to my town & check into a hotel; the kids and I will meet you in a public place. Behave yourself prove I can trust you and I'll let you have the kids for a trip to the park / movies etc on your own'. If the opportunity comes up put this kind of offer in writing- email or letter- that way you have evidence you're not going out of your way to stop him from seeing the kids.
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