and quite honestly im quite angered by this.
Ds#2 is mega ill, we ended up at the ED last night, when the dr saw us, and they knew he has autism, she first said "anything else wrong with him in that regard?" which is offensive in itself... I said he has a language disorder and sensory processing disorder... She then questioned me about seeing an occupational therapist, i said "yes i see one for both of my children" she then says "oh they are both autistic?... Did you drink while you were pregnant?"
I expect ignorance from most people, but not a Dr... I mean, i dont drink at all when im not pregnant, i dont even have rumballs at christmas time let alone drink while pregnant. (no one get uppity if you do drink while pregnant, thats your biz, i dont care)
Was then right as i was trying to hold my very strong 17kg 3 yr old during one of the biggest violent meltdowns while almost 25 weeks pregnant, the right time to try and play the blame game with me? Does itnot look like i have enough of on my plate?
Im considering making a complaint. I do not ordinarily do things like that, but this has really affected me.
Do i have reason to make a complaint?