So im going to be having my baby at a hospital in melbourne where if you have a shared room your family cant come in until visiting hours (2pm) . Telling my dp about this tonight when he got home from work and he was not impressed.
He said that if they didnt let him stay in the maternity ward he would start punching nurses and doctors out.. He would refuse to leave. I said that i didnt need that stress when having a newborn baby and just given birth + i would need him to go and get my daughter from previous relationship so she could see the newborn if i had her ( shared custody with ex ).
Upon telling him this again he said that he would say it was religious belief and would not leave as it was taking time away from "his" family.
I was really hurt by this. Yes i understand that its his baby too but for him to not care about the extra stress a scene would cause was dramatic to me. I told him that i would just check out as soon as ive had the baby and go home instead. I dont need the extra crap..
To add to this im not sure if im overreacting due to being tired very sore and i havent had sex in a while due to being sore so im frustrated as well...
What would you guys do????