I had a mmc and had to have a d&c last Tuesday. I was 11 weeks and the baby was 9 weeks.
I hadnt told anyone at work that I was pregnant- other than my boss. Naturally I assumed going back to work this week would not really be an issue.
Today a colleague came into my office and asked (in a really odd way) if I was feeling better...
I was a little thrown by this as it is Thursday and I have been at work all week- so I said "what do you mean?". He said "umm you know... After your umm illness... Last week". I said yeah kind of - I think it'll take some time but I am doing better thanks.
To which he replied "yeah I heard. It probably will take time. Not that I would know. Being a man. (insert awkward laugh here)".
I didn't know what to say so there was a good 45 seconds of painful silence before he left.
What would make someone think I would want to talk about it if I have not said a single word to them about being pregnant- let alone this?
Also 'my illness' WTF?
Sorry had to vent!!