If I sleep with someone and invite them to sleep the night I have NOT given them permission to have sex with me again. I have given them permission to sleep in my bed. It's very very different.
I'm going to dehumanise this, sorry to anyone who this is very personal to, the analogy may be hurtful a little... To say the opposite sounds to me like if you allowed someone to borrow your car to go to a meeting. They then take the car, drive around australia for 5months and bring it back. Cause you know, you let them take the keys...
Jeesz sounds sexist when the blame is all placed onto a man doesn't it?..?
Last edited by WorkingClassMum; 21-08-2012 at 20:34.
I'm not stupid, I know that there are cases where people have lied about being raped.
But I will always, ALWAYS believe a woman who says she has been raped, because the statistics are unbelievably high, and because it is ABSOLUTELY wrong to disregard the majority who are telling the truth and trying to be heard just because of a few liars.
It makes plenty of sense to me.
It also worries me that people like you feel so free to put my opinions down when in actuality you should be looking at the people you really have the problem with and thats the women who lie about rape, just as the one in this case is, I believe. Maybe if you directed your disgust and anger at these liars you would see that I am directing my own disgust and anger to the liars and I am not insulting actual rape victims or victim blaming or anything else I have been accused of in this thread!
No I'm pretty sure it's people like you who I have a problem with.
Originally Posted by Witwicky
So that means if I invite a man over for a one night stand, my body is no longer mine for the night? He can just continue having sex with me all night long even if I have had enough and want to stop? WTF
Oh yeah. That exactly! If you dont want it, dont invite a man to stay in your bed. If you do wake up and he is penetrating you and you dont like it, tell him to stop, get out of the bed or ask him to leave.
That is insulting rape victims. That is victim blaming. Explain to me how waking up to a man penetrating you when you do not want to be penetrated is not rape.
I'm so sorry White Tulips
ETA: White Tulips
This thread is a really sobering read.
Much love to all that have been hurt, triggered and offended
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