Hi Lambjam, I came looking for this thread because of a new article and related conversation I had with my DH yesterday. I saw an article about a teen who had decided that after transitioning to female that he wanted to transition back, but that is really not the point. I mentioned the article to my husband and also mentioned this thread and your tough situation. His thoughts were that you should let yourself be himself at home and out and about, make sure that he knows that he is just perfect as he is but that some people are just stupid and may say mean things but that there is nothing wrong with who or what he is, other people can just be stupid. At 6 he may not be quite ready to make the choice for himself but over the next couple of years he may start get a better understanding.