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    Quote Originally Posted by bwana View Post
    How hard is it???
    I feel so alone right now. Just going through the motions each day, hoping things will improve at some point.

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    Have you spoken to him about how your feeling? As they're not the brightest sparks sometimes, something could be staring at DH in the face and he still wouldn't see it- and then I wonder if it hit him, would he still realize?

    Hormones are horrendous things, have you felt like this with any of the other transfers ?

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    I have spoken to him, numerous times over the last couple of weeks. he apologises, seems better, then something will happen, we'll argue, and right back where we started. we were even arguing on the way to theatre for epu.
    Arrrgghhh, I dont know. I am disappointed in him.

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    I'm also struggling... Will I get my AF even though I'm using the progesterone cream day and night? I feel they are coming....

    I'm struggling because if this doesn't work it is back to the drawing board, either have to go through a whole cycle again or use an unknown donor. I feel like I owe it to my DH to use the known donor we have so he has some form of biological connection however they think we only got one egg to blast stage due to sperm quality. Such a hard decision, I'm so alone as my family and BFF are four hours away and the DH just blames himself for me having to go through this, not sure if I can go through all of this again!

    I take my hat of to the women who have done it more then once knowing you are going to feel this terrible all over again!

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    Oh geez, I'm sorry!! I see you have 4 kids too, how are they coping with all of this?

    You need a flag to wave when things are getting out of control- just wave it and walk away, and let him think about what's just happened.

    Has he said why he is acting like this?

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    Tickle, when I used the progesterone support ( crinone) it didn't stop my AF, but some women say it does.

    It is difficult path to keep battling down, but you pick yourself up and keep trudging along. You learn coping methods that work for you, and an inner strength that you weren't sure you had.

    That will be a hard discussion with DH but the bottom line is you want the best chance of success and if the sperm isn't high quality, it means your journey may be longer than it needs to be. Everything crossed though, you won't have to cross that bridge!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zakmick View Post
    Mrsh22 as Jesse said, crinone wouldn't do that.. So it's a positive reading!! YAY!!

    Fort and Bwana thankyou- I was going a little crazy!!

    Bwana- I'm sorry DH is being a douche x

    Fort- POAS??
    thanks. im not getting to excited until the blood test comes back, i can't help but think its the gel!

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    The kids are all great with everything.
    I think it may be "talk time" again tonight. I just want him to realise that we cant get this time back, and it is an important part of our journey. I just wish we felt connected and united.
    Definitely time for another talk!
    Are you on the crinone gel Zakmick?
    I was thinking it may be that which is causing my dryness?

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    oh Tickle, it must be hard.
    As Zakmick said though, you do just pick yourself up, and keep going. You will realise on this journey how tough you can be. Hopefully you wont have a long journey like some of us, but even if you do, the reward will be great, and it will all be worth it.
    It does get easier the more cycles you do.

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    GL with your talk!! Can you write things down in case things get too emotional for you before hand?

    No, not on any progesterone, I'm thinking it may be the predisnone. I was on it for 5 days, and stopped it yesterday. It played havoc with my sleep too, but I can't remember it giving me any grief last time..

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    ohhhh... I am on prednisolone too, so that could maybe explain it.

    Have found texting dh about it easier. He is feeling like he cant say anything right without feeling attacked, so prefers to say nothing.

    God!!! Am I that bad??? The kids dont think I am, maybe I am taking it all out on him??? I didnt think so....

    Were you on doxycycline as well this cycle? or anything else? Do you mind me asking if you have had the uterine biopsy to test for nk cells?

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