relationship troubles. :(

[Jakois]

You say that you're in an unconventional relationship. Is he married? Or is it just the age gap that's unconventional?

[Candyxxx]

he is not married.
the age gap. and its a open relationship.

feel like im digging a bigger hole for myself. kinda regret posting this.

but thank you for all he replies.

[AllYouNeedIsLove]

Does his family know about your relationship, perhaps he's avoiding integrating you into the family?
You sound as though you are very reliant on this man, I hope you have others to help you through at this stage xxx

[VicPark]

he is not married.
the age gap. and its a open relationship.

feel like im digging a bigger hole for myself. kinda regret posting this.

but thank you for all he replies.

No offense but if you're in an open relationship chances are he's using you, even if you don't have sex each time you meet.

If he really loved you he wouldn't want to be in an open relationship.

[mishh]

No offense but if you're in an open relationship chances are he's using you, even if you don't have sex each time you meet.

If he really loved you he wouldn't want to be in an open relationship.

Definitely this.

You're 20. Go live your life and don't let a man who won't commit use you.

[wigglemay]

Unfortunately I have to agree with PP, open relationships are built for one party to use another, I would know I was in one until I met DP.

You have no idea how amazing you'll feel when you meet the guy who really loves you, you'll wonder why you ever stuck around.

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[LifeInShadesOfGrey]

I hope that you come to the best decision to suit you. But if you feel you are both heading down different tracks then parting ways might be the best way. You are 20, you have a lifetime ahead of you, so take charge of it!