Ok, i'm hoping some of you girls may have read links/stories etc (especially aimed at dads?) about the pro's-con's of paying for a birth?
admittedly i'm more interested in the homebirth side of birth, than public/private, but i'll take what i can get.
Because apparently i'm not very good at explaining why for *me*, i'd rather fork out the $3K for my birth, than *try* to get into the hospital program...*hope* i don't get risked out at any stage, *hope* that everything goes to the hospitals timelines, and then *hope* that i get respected the way i want.
while having the knowledge i do have cause me to feel anxious about being undermined.
[and no, not pregnant. just starting the 'this is why my way is right' debate EARLY ]