See the problem is, in the opening post it didn't seem so bad, and when you started getting responses you didn't like you kept adding to the story until she sounded like an awful mother doing the complete wrong thing.
Why don't people just say the whole story upfront? That type of thing happens all the time on bubhub, and I just never know if by the end, with all the little parts added if the story is actually completely true. If it was, wouldn't you just say the way it was it in the first place???