I would choose option 2. Mainly because of the articles I read in last weeks paper, about a woman in a similar situation wanting to home birth after 2 CSs. She thought the doctors were exaggerating the risks, and thought she knew better.
The midwife there called another midwife, who came over and they eventually took her to hospital but the baby died a few days later.
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but the only good outcome from this baby dying is if others learn from it.
You asked for opinions please don't roast me.