Happy Tuesday Ladies
Sounds like a lot of us are doing the big spring clean! Hopefully this is a sign that we are making room in our lives for new beginnings!
Thank you to those who asked about my health... Looks likely to have been either a bowel obstruction or a viral bug. Not pleasant either way but no sharp pain just dull ache now so on the mend.
Hopefully this is our month. We managed to DTD every second day from CD7 to CD18 so if we haven't caught the egg this time I seriously give up!
I understand the superstitious side of doing all the right/proactive things but its usually when i dont ie not temping, not taking supplements etc, that i do fall preg and so sometimes I feel like I'm doing a bad thing. DF likes his wine and forgets to take his menevit and I hate taking tablets so when we are UTD and it fails I feel rotten and responsible, yet when we carefully plan we never seem to get UTD... So I'm torn as to which plan!
raeleneb... So sorry to hear about your stillbirth. I cannot fathom the hole in your heart and the confusion in your mind that situation must of brought you and your loved ones x x
Del... Not long now and you will be DTD with intent! Get your sex kitten on girl, and have fun!
Girlx... I don't trust hpt that much... Best to wait for Fridays BT results as they will be unquestionable! Fingers crossed for you x
Luey... I understand the questions you raised re weight. I believe I should be in a better position to conceive now than when I was 25kg-35kg heavier but other factors also contribute like age, timing, stress levels, medical history.
I can get UTD but can't stick... Yet never the same reason. I've had an ectopic, then a early m/c, then lost one twin to have DD at 26weeks, then a chemical then another early m/c, then lost one at 12wks then one at 8 weeks... So no pattern!
if you both choose to lose weight for your health that's great, and you will both feel better about it but I watched my friend at 140kgs have two boys and she was in her late 30s so I'm am stumped! Exercise does release endorphins and so does DTD so maybe go for a walk after dinner together then have a cuddle!! Can't hurt!