SL sorry to hear you so sick
Grebecci, good on ya! What did you get?
So we have our morph scan on Friday and still deciding if we want to find out the sex. We are both 50/50 for either way.
What was/is your deciding factor on finding out or leaving it as a surprise?
Hahaha I cant not know!!!!! Finding out so we can start referring to bub by their name I just think it helps the bonding process lol and to help plan and organize. But a surprise would be cool but I would go crazy just waiting for bub to arrive lol
Broom this is kind of where I'm at... Curiosity is killing me!
Nala we're not finding out, reason being this process is so planned that it's nice to have a surprise at the end, plus it's only a possibility of 2 things not 50, making a nursery neutral is easy aswell... You can add pink or boy when it's born! Plus we just want a baby!
That's our other main point, everything is so planned so a surprise is nice. I meant we are both wanting to find out and not at the same time, it changes each day.
My little bub has been frozen for 2 years with me wondering whether it was a boy or girl, I couldn't wait any longer. Plus it meant I could go shopping.
Will put up a pic of what I bought soon
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I found out with DS and I loved it because I called him by his name the second we found out. I loved talking to him and referring to 'it' as a him.
I didn't do it for the nursery (actually he has quite a neutral nursery) for me it was more to bond.
Im finding out this time too for the same reason.
totally understand wanting a surprise too - its so hard to know what to do!
Most of my friends haven't found out with any of their kids!
argh - i see both sides!
sorry - I'm NO help at all! I just can't wait, so I'm definitely finding out!
That's our other point, the bonding experience, it would be nice to have a he or she instead of bubs or bean.
We have already decided on nursery colours and even bought the sheets and paint and all that which isn't gender specific, so that isn't part of our deciding factors.
I reckon it will be a case of depends how we feel on the day... But the curiosity will get us I bet!
Hehe can't wait to see your shopping adventures!!!!
My nursery is going to be unisex I just can't handle not knowing !!!!!! Lmao nor can my partner I think it's because we have 5 nephews and 1 niece and it will be fun to see what we are blessed with. It's a guessing game with us because we used an unknown sperm donor and everyday I wonder who the baby will take after lmao.
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