Sorry guys but need to have a rant.
So obviously we had been putting off buying a lot of stuff for bub like manchester and clothes and things until we knew what we were having. After finding out we were having a little girl yesterday I was sooo excited and couldn't wait to go and find the manchester for her cot and maybe buy her 1 or 2 outfits. I am in the middle of decorating the nursery at the moment and it would be nice to have all the bits to put it together at the end.
So I say to DH last night, "you know I'm going shopping tomorrow.' and he responds with 'You can't, I don't get paid this week." (he had to take an unpaid week of leave for our holiday last week cause he has just started a new job). Even when I suggested laybuy he said we had enough on laybuy as it is. So whilst I am well aware I could just ignore him, and on some level he may not have really been serious anyway, he has taken all the fun out of it and now I am not even looking forward to going and buying things for our baby girl. So I probably won't go shopping today now and I just kind of feel like sh!t and all heaps stressed about money again.
I feel like he has taken away the first thing I have been excited about it the whole pregnancy.
ETA - and now my frickin media player has decided to sh!t itself.