Yes SL Like it's any of their business anyway. It's like names as well. 'Have you got names picked out? Ohhh what are they?' Ah none of your beez wax lady.
And Gampa the whole belly thing. I hate it. Why do they think it is ok to touch your belly???? Would they do it any other time? We need to think of some really clever 'back off' comments to say to them.
I agree ladies, it is most definately, are you finding out what you're having? No. Oh why not?
On this whole journey for me there hasn't much of a surprise element to any of it given everything we went through so I'd like one part to just be unknown, especially as it is our first!
And yes the names, I don't know how you ladies feel but even if people ask me, I won't be telling them!
Gampa.. I think you need to come live with me for a while... your wealth of knowledge is needed!!
I have a problem with some people touching my tummy. little persons are ok, they are most relatives or kids I know. I have a MASSIVE problem with my mum touching my tummy (we don't get on very well, she drives me nuts) but I am ok with my MIL and SIL, as they don't do it all the time, and it isn't as soon as I see them, they are very gentle about it
I have told my mum I am not comfortable with my belly being rubbed at the moment, and she was like its my grandchild I can do what I want... I am like, it is my body and I am asking you to respect my choice.
As for comments, one of my friends use to rub the offenders tummy and go.. is that a food baby in there? or awww budda belly. lol that use to really get the message across!
Crafty - that is the only reason that is stopping us from finding out the sex... but we are to curious cats so not sure how we will go....
I reckon one needs a cattle prod for people who touch our bellies. Nothing a good old zap won't fix
Im back....and like you all have said it was amazing
Everything was as it should be, HB was 150, chance of downs was 1 in 6,506 and all the other were even lower, one of them was 1 in 111,475.
My DH reckons he saw a little boy in there, but the sonographer reckons he was seeing things as she didnt couldnt see what he did, she reckons maybe it was the cord. Only time will tell
Now i can begin telling people....starting with work...hmm. Good news is our mat leave has just increased to 3 months paid from 6 weeks, so thats amazing
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