..you first noticing SOMETHING was going on to ESTABLISHED LABOUR (4cm).
And how did you feel during this prelabour/early labour, could you hold converstation, travel in a car, do housework, sleep/rest?? Or was it full on the whole time?
The reason I ask is that I have two choices of hospitals, one hospy close to home where I would like to be in teh weeks leading up to the birth and the other 90min-2hrs away where I have family.
I really don't want to spend the weeks leading up to birth hanging around at my families, it will cause me stress, annoy me and make me feel so unsettled. But I think I would be happiest birthing at the bigger hospy.
In an ideal world I woudl liek to travel from home to Melbourne at the first sign of anythign happening, finish my prelabour at my sisters and then transfer to hospy around 6-7cm??