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    oh id be mega ticked off, and tbh id question why the heck my husband wanted to know someone/give them an important role in our unity who didnt like me anyways.

    you are totally in the right OP :P

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    Quote Originally Posted by DiamondEyes View Post
    oh id be mega ticked off, and tbh id question why the heck my husband wanted to know someone/give them an important role in our unity who didnt like me anyways.

    you are totally in the right OP :P
    I knew I would be I only put questions to bubhub if I know I can prove DP wrong

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    It really depends:
    - how close is your partner with that friend?
    - how certain are you that the friend actually hates you?
    - what have they done to you? (eg has there been big fights etc?)

    If I just think they don't like me, but they are still cordial to me and we have never had a fight, I would probably let it go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VicPark View Post
    It really depends:
    - how close is your partner with that friend?
    - how certain are you that the friend actually hates you?
    - what have they done to you? (eg has there been big fights etc?)

    If I just think they don't like me, but they are still cordial to me and we have never had a fight, I would probably let it go.
    They were very close until a recent fight. They work together in a high pressure job so it's kind of important she has someone to vent to about it.

    I don't think she hates me but she doesn't think DP and I have a great relationship.

    This was ascertained after a confrontation where she told DP that we should not have kids as I am too controlling and am forcing her into it, DP is not parent material and our relationship is unstable.

    They didn't talk for a few weeks and due to being rostered on together lately, have just started talking again.

    DP doesn't have many friends at all so I don't want to ask her to cut off someone if they can maintain a friendship away from me and my house...

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    ^^ I was just gonna ask if it was that chick. Why is your DP friends with someone who thinks she won't be a good mother what is going to happen when you two DO have kids?? Awkward much...

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    It's YOUR wedding. Yourself and your partner and you should both feel 100% comfortable with all of your wedding party.

    I can see where your DP is coming from but at the end of the day, she should consider your feelings first, especially if you feel so strongly about it. It really could ruin your wedding having someone there you feel that strongly about.

    My DP would like to have a certain member of his family as a groomsman (and we are all close) but i don't want him because he has hit on me on the side (gross i know) and DP is happy with that because he wouldn't want me to be uncomfortable.

    Maybe you could talk to your partner and say that you really feel that if this person is in the wedding, it will really take away from your special day. It's you or them!

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    Quote Originally Posted by rainbow road View Post
    They were very close until a recent fight. They work together in a high pressure job so it's kind of important she has someone to vent to about it.

    I don't think she hates me but she doesn't think DP and I have a great relationship.

    This was ascertained after a confrontation where she told DP that we should not have kids as I am too controlling and am forcing her into it, DP is not parent material and our relationship is unstable.

    They didn't talk for a few weeks and due to being rostered on together lately, have just started talking again.

    DP doesn't have many friends at all so I don't want to ask her to cut off someone if they can maintain a friendship away from me and my house...
    Wow, she sounds like a bit of a bish who should keep her opinions to herself actually.

    It is a tough question because I have been on the other side of the fence as a bridesmaid for my sister and I disliked and fought with her (now ex) husband.

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    How about if she does the guestbook? (like Miranda, if you've watched s*x and the city).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Boobycino View Post
    Id say that people in the wedding party had better be 100% behind the union or they have no business being there.

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    Absolutely. I would be more than annoyed. It just wouldn't make sense to me, why would they want to have someone who didn't like me? Not just in the the bridal party, but in their life!

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    Quote Originally Posted by FearlessLeader View Post
    ^^ I was just gonna ask if it was that chick. Why is your DP friends with someone who thinks she won't be a good mother what is going to happen when you two DO have kids?? Awkward much...

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    I dunno. I'm humouring them at the moment because I know they won't be speaking in 6 months time...

    As long as I don't see her, I don't care if they speak. They don't have a choice at work anyway. And fortunately DP won't see her socially anymore either.

    She was just one of the people DP floated to be a bridesmaid for her and when I said nu-uh! She argued...because she doesn't like being wrong but she is.


 

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