Hi. I have a 2.5 year old DS who has been everything to me. I am probably too protective of him and he is quite spoilt. Our fault and something we are working on. We had a little girl last week and have been home for two days. DS has shown a bit of jealousy but nothing major - mostly disinterest if anything. However I seem to have the problem with the change in feelings towards DS. I feel so sorry for him. His sister is a frequent feeder at the moment and I am focusing everything on her. DS has had to play with his toys by himself for the first time (I mean he has played independently a lot but I have always been available to play when he's wanted me to). I feel so sorry for him just playing by himself with no choice while I'm feeding DD. I know it's irrational but it feels so strange for me not focusing all my attention on him. Has anyone felt like this? I have no idea how the next few months are going to be. Not going out as much, less attention etc.