keep in mind I havent read the other thread..
I think women take plenty of responsibility on the whole.. Im not sure how someone can be asked to "take responsibility" for a man being a bad father though.. But most women do.. in that most women end up doing most of the child rearing.
If you mean in the sense that it is her responsibility because she "chose" him.. "chose" the situation..
Well.. I wont deny that sometimes women make bad choices for partners.. Hell, I did lol.. (although hes better these days). I wont deny that some women choose to have children when they probably arent in happy, healthy or safe relationships. I work with women in these situations. I know that sometimes people beleive things like "he will change after the baby is born."
They do end up "taking responsibility" the majority of the time, in that so many of them end up getting zero child support, zero emotional support. I dont think they should wear the majority of the responsibility. These men do choose where they put their penises. They dont just fall over and get someone pregnant.