Hi! I need some advise, I left my sons father 12 months ago. To keep things out of court he asked that we go week about with our son and I said yes. We have an agreement that works fine. Problem is father didn't like me moving on with my life and refuses to communicate with me, if I need to communicate I have to go through his mum. Next thing is his behavior, it is clear to me, my partner and family that there are two sets of rules (as can be expected) however when I get my son back his tantrums and behavior are horrible. I work all week to get him to be how he is with me and then it just goes down the drain. Last thing is I now have a newborn. He is adapted to this and loves his sister. I need to know am I doing the right thing by going week about with someone who is so young, I often wonder if the two sets or different rules is good for a two yo. I don't want to take him from his dad and I don't want him being taken from our family I just want to do what is right for him. Please help this lost and confused mummy, I just want to do what is right.