My husband of 8 years and I separated 8 months ago and have been trying to sort through our problems to see whether we definately want to split or try again.
My head is constantly full of pros and cons to the relationship and I can't seem to muddle through them to make a decision one way or the other. We have a two year old dd and a lot of this issues came about after she was born and we never really adjusted to the family unit. Combined with hubby being diagnosed with depression when she was 3 months old it has been a rough few years.
It's a long shot but I was hoping someone could see whether there is a separation or reconciliation in my future.