Thanks guys. I still will be keeping the IVO against him as i dont need him abusing me again.. But on a good note, my god mother said he bought a new car seat (Luxi-crown i think ) Or its one that will keep her going til she is 8, Top of the range and all flashy.. Im glad that he is stepping up with that..
Although they did cut her hair ridiculously short which i have been asking for them not to do ( I have never been with my little girl when she got her hair cut, his mother just cuts it whenever she pleases and he agrees ) But thats something i will have to deal with.
My god mother also noted that he was asking for her to say please and thankyou whilst they were there as well So as scared as i am for her and her wellbeing, he is doing ok. She however came home in a thin shirt and shorts (im in melbourne so its bloody cold ) and poo was smeared through her underwear.. but this is something l will just have to get him to work on.