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    I did, briefly.

    She kind of hid when I was there. She contacted me later on though, and was a scrag, so I'm okay with not really spending any extra time getting to know her. If she played in a big part (or any part at all really) in DD's life, I would pretty much require to know her at least a little. I personally would not be okay with some person I don't know sleeping in close proximity to my child, spending time with my child (potentially without either parent there), etc.

    (And no, I didn't make sure DD's father had that chance with DP, but too bad... I'm higher on the parenting ladder than he is/was).

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    Wow.
    Old thread. I never ever did end up meeting her. They broke up not long after I started this thread actually.

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    Yeah I met her not long after we separated. Him and her were chatting online together while him and I were still together, pregnant or just after our son was born. So I never liked her from word go. I am civil and only talk to her when I had and have to.
    They live in VIC now so the last time I had to see her was December last year.

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    Yep.

    She was at his house as she came to Aus from NZ showed up for a bit of fun and decided to move in.

    At this time my ex was still with me, we were expecting our first child, we had a shower together, she got annoyed and left.. But she returned and is still there now.

    We hate each other. Always have and always will.

    She is now pregnant and I'm not handling it well because last year I fell pregnant (to her partner, my ex) he says he didn't want more kids, I terminated, she skipped the pill and is now due next month. (One months after I was due)

    The ex is still trying to sleep with me, but I'm moving on and am finally able to say no. Still not handling the pregnancy and the fact I am now tied to this b!tch for life but those two deserve each other and I'm glad I'm free from his cheating and lies.

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    I knew exDPs now partner before they got together, we all worked together from 2008-2010; they didnt get together until this year. I hadn't seen her in a really long time, and didnt meet her as his partner for about a month or 2 as I felt a bit awkward about the situation even though I had a new partner myself. She is lovely though, we get along and have a good chat when they do pick up/drop off. The only downside is exDP has chosen to see DD less because they go out a lot, but I don't blame her for that

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    Wow I can't believe a few of your 'best friends' are now with your ex's!! That's awful!!

    Yes I've met DDs farthest GF. She face booked me one day when him & I were together saying that him & her were together. Her & I both didn't know about each other so we confronted him together, blasted him, went & got a coffee together and started to be friends. Then she got back together with him and banned him from talking to me & seeing DD. He calls occasionally now to speak to DD (who refuses to speak to him), the other week I missed his call and called him back a few hours later and she must have been around cos he was like 'what do you want?' And rude etc so I guess she doesn't know he calls sometimes.

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    *fathers

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    I've been the new partner of a guy with a DS. They had been separated for about 3 years and she was remarried, but she still made/makes trouble. I tried and tried to be nice and she kept causing arguments and carrying on in front of their DS, and I'd had enough and didn't think that was fair on their DS. We had a HUGE argument on the phone one day, 2 years after as I had but my tounge and I couldn't handle it anymore. She backed off a bit and now we don't speak at all. Prefer it that way. I have a relationship with her DS, I don't need to have one with her.

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    Yes. We are now best friends


 

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