It certainly is a lot to take in and there is so much running through your mind. I had a 1:24 chance and all I could keep hearing was my dr say I have a high risk pregnancy.
I had an amnio and everything ended up being fine.
We chose not to tell anyone at the time as I couldn't handle other peoples responses. It was hard enough dealing with my own.
All I can offer and I know it isnt much, but take one day at a time. I spent the first few days after the scan just crying. Big hugs to you. Im happy to answer any questions you may have.