Well its still fairly early for us (14 weeks tomorrow) but we are having the 'find out, no find out' debate between DP and I.
I dont really want to know, I know its nice to buy the colours and things but for me that would be the only reason. We have kept everything from DD1 (furniture and bedding, etc) that was done in unisex colours anyway.
But DP would like to know so he can go and buy clothing and things now..... trouble is, we have no idea how big the baby will be either so Im not sure this is a good argument!
We have names reasonably picked for both genders and Im not sure whether to give in and find out the gender or not.......
I just think, we've had a rocky road so far and to have that nice surprise at the end would be lovely.
And there's no way if DP found out and I didnt that he wouldnt blab it to me!
For us, it doesnt matter either way what gender the baby is, as long as they are healthy!!!!
What do you guys think?
(So far DP is supporting me not to know).